Life is Sailing

A place of life exploration, sailing journeys, and piece of thought

  • Today I challenged myself to 365 days of writing for no less than ten minutes a day and to take a picture of the location.

    Honest and True

    Honest: free of deceit and untruthfulness; sincere
    True: in accordance with fact of reality; accurate or exact

    How valued are these words today?

    Dear Lord,
    Open our eyes to see the truth and not live in white lies.
    Help us face the faults and flaws that destroy foundations.
    Simple lies can be altered with simple, brave truths.
    Teach us to criticize our own actions in our heads
    and our hearts,
    To ponder and chew over what actually happened.
    Discipline our minds to see the reality of our mistakes.
    Peel back the bark of deadness from our soul,
    Death that would eat away health of relationships, of lives.
    Enlighten our hearts to grow robust from the inside
    And stand tall, like a pine tree,
    Expanding upward in and toward Truth.
    Amene
  • Today I challenged myself to 365 days of writing for no less than ten minutes a day and to take a picture of the location.

    “Oh say can you see, by the dawn’s early light…” These words were penned by Francis Scott Key at the end of a battle during the War of 1812 as he gazed toward Fort McHenry near Baltimore. White stars on a blue background, red and white stripes. A little less than one year ago, my family and I stood on that very fort gazing out on the Potapsco River where the ship was anchored from which Francis Scott Key scratched out the first verse of our well-known national anthem. The first newspaper to publish his poem was the Baltimore Patriot and Evening Advertiser. Click this link below to see a fascimile of the first newspaper printing: https://www.loc.gov/resource/music.musihas-100010479/?st=image&r=-4.49,1.384,9.979,5.312,0

    Fort McHenry is part of the national park service and well worth visiting. Make sure to watch the video in the museum and remain seated for a spectactular, stirring finish! The tour guides are very informative as well. https://www.nps.gov/fomc/index.htm

    What great value are those who take to the pen and record, in verse or prose, events of history. Key composed words that inspire patriotism to this day and remind us of the hard-fought battles to build and defend this great nation. Happy Independence Day, America!

  • Today I challenged myself to 365 days of writing for no less than ten minutes a day and to take a picture of the location.

    I never really liked the song “Everything Is Awesome”. I guess I am just too much of a realist. With the bumps and challenges in life, how can one say “everything is awesome” all the time? This doesn’t mean I live with a negative view of life. I am thankful when things go well, but I also expect them not to go well at times. Often it’s when life takes a turn that I don’t like that I grow best and learn most. I am ever grateful that I am not the one in control of my life and that the One who is knows exactly what He is doing, even when I may be disgruntled about a turn in the road I had planned.

    So when I found myself watching The Lego Movie 2: The Second Part, I loved when the song was changed to “Everything’s Not Awesome”!


    "Everything's not awesome
    But that doesn't mean that it's hopeless and bleak
    Everything's not awesome
    But in my heart, I believe (I believe)

    We can make things better if we stick together...
    Side by side, you and I, we will build it together...
    Build it together...
    All together now...

    Everything's not awesome
    Things can't be awesome all of the time
    It's an unrealistic expectation
    But that doesn't mean we shouldn't try
    To make everything awesome
    In a less idealistic kind of way
    We should maybe aim for not bad
    'Cause not bad, well that would be real great..."

    As a striver for better, I personally believe we should always aim to do our best. But the perfectionist in me is tempered by what I have come to understand as human limitations. One, we cannot achieve perfection: nothing will be truly “awesome” on this earth. And that’s okay. This is earth, not heaven. Two: we only have a finite amount of time to commit to any one activity. People and priorities pull us away from closing in on perfection… and that’s okay too.

    Where the lyrics of this song really ring true to me is in relationships. Close relationships are tricky because of expectations. Misunderstandings are bound to happen, over and over again. Everything will not feel awesome all of the time. We should try to improve and grow our communication and consideration of each other, increasing connection. We can “stick together, side by side… [and] build it together.” Sometimes, just like the song says, aiming for “not bad” could be “real great”.

    That said, I am compelled to close with an exhortation to pursue a life of growth and learning, together with others. In so doing we will move beyond “not bad” and toward amazing.

  • Today I challenged myself to 365 days of writing for no less than ten minutes a day and to take a picture of the location.

    It was a hot day outside and the beginning of a holiday weekend. Our family needed desperately to get out of our small lodging. Other than going to the pool, what could we do that kept us cool? My husband and I decided to treat our children to a movie theater experience of the live-action “How to Train Your Dragon”. Our children have not seen many movies in theater. As a matter of fact, it was the first movie a couple of them had ever seen in theater. We bought the enormous bucket of popcorn and a large drink. The taste of salty theater popcorn just seems to go with the whole movie experience. We snuck into the darkened room a few minutes after the movie began, bowing to try to avoid bothering other viewers.

    Settled into our seats, the munching began. Handful after handful shoveled into their mouths, especially the youngest. Since his eyes were glued open to absorb the vibrant action, I had to remind him several times to remember to blink. Mesmerized! As much as I enjoyed the movie (which I do highly recommend), my attention returned to this youth engrossed in the world of the movies. Never before had he seen such a large screen. He seemed transported to a different world, to the landscape of Iceland where the movie was filmed, a land full of dragons and risks and adventure, a story with struggle and triumph. In a serious scene, I watched as my son shared the emotions of the characters. His eyes became glassy, his bottom lip trembled, his heart pain was visible on his face. This boy, so full of passion and temper, felt the pain of others. When the situation resolved happily, I saw a visible wave of relief and joy wash over his countenance.

    I have learned not everyone has these connections with movies. What is it about someone that allows for such an intense connection with the story on the screen? To feel the emotions as if one were actually a part of the story itself? It is fascinating to watch my children watching the world.

  • Today I challenged myself to 365 days of writing for no less than ten minutes a day and to take a picture of the location.

    She arrived to her new yacht club with knotted anticipation. Always a few nerves sailing with a new crew. One familiar face was guaranteed, “K”, the connection from the most special sailing school community. Per instructions from K, she sat at a table along the stone wall of the porch, aware of the group gathered by the fire pit 20 feet away. She was the only one carrying a PFD. Perhaps these folks were not here for the race after all.

    Whisked by K off to the 33 ft Frers, she excitedly left terra firma and entered into the world of Peli, a boat filled with lines and blocks and large jib and spinnaker. Everyone knew their job and politely included her in small boats tasks of passing a couple lines.

    The smell of gasoline signaled the beginning of movement. They left the dock unceremoniously and serenely to enter the basin of water in which they were to sail. Immediately when they turned head to wind, marine mammals surfaced… could it be??! The friendly animal of the sea, dolphins come to play. Their backs rose from the water, sweet triangles, small blowholes all around the boat. S he spotted them first and gleefully shared the news with the crew. Everyone on the boat expressed joy at seeing these playful creatures. They heralded an exhilarating ride ahead.

    Off into the race Peli tore through the waves. A downwind start with spinnaker kite flying! Even the skipper noted how fast they were traveling. Was that a bit of unease in his voice? “Steady on the main.” “Rail meat, do your thing!” She sat as close to the edge of the windward side as possible and ducked her head under the life line. It was a good thing there were two other pieces of rail meat! They needed the weight against the wind’s inclination to topple the boat.

    Faster and faster they continued on. A few tacks – scurry across, flat as a pancake so you don’t get your head knocked by the large boom. Three people struggled to make it across before the boat heeled and tried to throw one or two into the sea. She soon learned to cross in the cockpit and became useful to the spinnaker trimmer. It felt nice to be useful … it felt nice to have a more secure spot to sit when the boat tacked, aggressively dancing with the wind!

    Aw, the glorious rhythm of the see, the ocean spray christening all above decks, including the skipper at the back! All were a part of the sea and all laughed as children in a rain storm.

    The horn was blown as they crossed the finish line. “Whew! And we are done!” Exhausted and weary from the adventure, the crew began the putting away of sails and lines. But the skies had not joined in the fun of the night. Large stunning dark clouds rose into anvils. The sky could wait no longer. Down came enormous, cold raindrops, slanting toward the basin. Guarded only slightly by the lowered sail, she and L huddled close for warmth, even as they chuckled over the insanely frigid pelting. And then as they backed into their slip, the rain ceased as suddenly as it had begun.

    What a thrilling first ride on Peli!

  • Today I challenged myself to 365 days of writing for no less than ten minutes a day and to take a picture of the location.

    July 1, 2025

    Time escapes me like a smooth marble on a slick wood floor.

    Each night I have managed these last couple weeks to squeeze in a writing before falling asleep. Hooray for maintaining a habit of writing every day, even if I have not managed to type it up on this website each day. This is a huge success, one I was unsure of accomplishing. However, the next step will be to write before close of day.

    I suppose we each have our own particular peak writing time of day. Does our writing style/content differ based on when we sit to write? Is there a difference in writing output when one writes outside versus inside? I learned recently that when artists began painting outside due to the invention of portable paints their paintings became much brighter, often landscapes imbued with the warmth of the sun. Will writing from an outside location change how I write?

  • Today I challenged myself to 365 days of writing for no less than ten minutes a day and to take a picture of the location.

    June 30, 2025

    The towers of Greenbury Point. Three stand tall. A reminder of innovations gone by, beacons of welcome today, navigation aids along the Chesapeake Bay and into the Severn River. They are one of the many landmarks of Annapolis, city settled in 1649. Whether viewed from seashore trails below them or from a dinghy on the bay in front of them, these massive giants echo an age of radio and proclaim the endurance of strong work. Their intricate, mathematical lattices climb ever skyward, solid metal beams that withstand the progress of time. Stay tall, Greenbury towers. Guard over this city of “anna”, God’s grace and favor. May those who visit experience joy at the sight of life on the bay at your feet: the crabbers, oyster gatherers, sailors, Naval Academy midshipmen, speed boaters… the watermen of this historic city. And may they marvel at the three tower guardians of Annapolis.

  • Today I challenged myself to 365 days of writing for no less than ten minutes a day and to take a picture of the location.

    June 29, 2025

    Injured toes need to learn to feel the ground again, to curl toward the earth and feel the sand or slipper or grass. Injured toes want to stay off the ground, to pull away from what hurts. This is necessary for a time. But after a break from pressure, the injured toe, now rested from use, must re-engage with every day tasks. It must feel the earth again and learn to bend.

    There is a term called “grounding”, a word used to describe a technique to help cope with psychological-emotional trauma. It is a “wellness practice that involves making direct contact with the Earth’s surface, such as walking barefoot on grass, sand or dirt. The theory is that grounding provides a connection to the Earth’s electrical charge, which may have a positive impact on our bodies, health and mood.” (Missionhealth.org)

    Grounding has also been used to help children with autism or ADHD calm their senses. It relieves nervous tension and anxiety. For whatever reason, the connection of our feet or body to the earth soothes our systems and balances our emotions.

    So let us remember where our feet stand. Let us wiggle our toes and feel where each of the ten connect to the earth. We can be grounded and present in life, no matter how busy, no matter how chaotic. We are here where we need to be.

  • Today I challenged myself to 365 days of writing for no less than ten minutes a day and to take a picture of the location.

    She sat with her brown eyes cast toward the sea, the waves enticing a quick skim across the surface. The faintest breeze teased a wisp of hair from behind her ear. It smelled of summer, hot and humid, a muted sense of rest. Ripple upon ripple. Emotions stirred. She felt it building, this wave of wind, this band of energy. Her brown hair stretched across her face as the gust encompassed her entire being. The wind was here!

    A brief glance at the sky and a double check of the radar later and the brown-haired brown-eyed lass lept into her dinghy to ride waves on this fine day!

  • Today I challenged myself to 365 days of writing for no less than ten minutes a day and to take a picture of the location.

    Free to fly, free to sing.  A blue and white bird hops and soars, tweets and squawks.  She extends her talons, claws she skillfully employs to gather supplies for her nest, catch food, grasp prey, grip landings.  Up into the air, around in circles, through the doorways of the trees swoops the stealthy flier.  “Cluck, cluck,” she proclaims as she lands contentedly on her favorite perch, a tender bow with broad arms and wisps of moss.  Time to primp her feathers. 

    Wait, her tail is yellow!  A night in the rain soiled her dainty plumage.  She must purge her feathers of such filth.  What stately cleaning ensues as one by one the fine fowl attends to each dirtied feather.  Her beak pulls the oils from the cleaning glands and quickly applies it to each feather.  She begins by her back and then stretches out, pulling the feathers like a fan.  It is beautiful and peaceful to watch, but she is busy at work. 

    Pausing she rests.  She puffs her feathers, appearing as a round fluff ball, and shakes out her down.  Vigorously wagging her tail, the bird is pleased with her success.  She gracefully balances on the swaying branch, coos, and fluffs up her neck feathers proudly.  Her beady eyes squint and almost close. She is content and happy to be a bird.

Leader
Will you lead through the fire?
What when the fire dies?
Who are you leading and do you know your why?
Do you promote yourself above others?
Or do you look and see others, weaving talents together to yield a cloth of multiplied strength?
Deceptive is the idea that the best leader is one most skilled in his craft (be it flying a plane, designing technology, etc).
Perhaps leading others is a skill in itself.
Look just below the highest performing worker… for the one who watches, observes, encourages, challenges the team to grow.
Can an intrinsically skilled leader of people lead in multiple contexts, regardless of his/her specific job training?
Leader, lead people and know why you lead.