Life is Sailing

A place of life exploration, sailing journeys, and piece of thought

  • Today I challenged myself to 365 days of writing for no less than ten minutes a day and to take a picture of the location.

    She arrived to her new yacht club with knotted anticipation. Always a few nerves sailing with a new crew. One familiar face was guaranteed, “K”, the connection from the most special sailing school community. Per instructions from K, she sat at a table along the stone wall of the porch, aware of the group gathered by the fire pit 20 feet away. She was the only one carrying a PFD. Perhaps these folks were not here for the race after all.

    Whisked by K off to the 33 ft Frers, she excitedly left terra firma and entered into the world of Peli, a boat filled with lines and blocks and large jib and spinnaker. Everyone knew their job and politely included her in small boats tasks of passing a couple lines.

    The smell of gasoline signaled the beginning of movement. They left the dock unceremoniously and serenely to enter the basin of water in which they were to sail. Immediately when they turned head to wind, marine mammals surfaced… could it be??! The friendly animal of the sea, dolphins come to play. Their backs rose from the water, sweet triangles, small blowholes all around the boat. S he spotted them first and gleefully shared the news with the crew. Everyone on the boat expressed joy at seeing these playful creatures. They heralded an exhilarating ride ahead.

    Off into the race Peli tore through the waves. A downwind start with spinnaker kite flying! Even the skipper noted how fast they were traveling. Was that a bit of unease in his voice? “Steady on the main.” “Rail meat, do your thing!” She sat as close to the edge of the windward side as possible and ducked her head under the life line. It was a good thing there were two other pieces of rail meat! They needed the weight against the wind’s inclination to topple the boat.

    Faster and faster they continued on. A few tacks – scurry across, flat as a pancake so you don’t get your head knocked by the large boom. Three people struggled to make it across before the boat heeled and tried to throw one or two into the sea. She soon learned to cross in the cockpit and became useful to the spinnaker trimmer. It felt nice to be useful … it felt nice to have a more secure spot to sit when the boat tacked, aggressively dancing with the wind!

    Aw, the glorious rhythm of the see, the ocean spray christening all above decks, including the skipper at the back! All were a part of the sea and all laughed as children in a rain storm.

    The horn was blown as they crossed the finish line. “Whew! And we are done!” Exhausted and weary from the adventure, the crew began the putting away of sails and lines. But the skies had not joined in the fun of the night. Large stunning dark clouds rose into anvils. The sky could wait no longer. Down came enormous, cold raindrops, slanting toward the basin. Guarded only slightly by the lowered sail, she and L huddled close for warmth, even as they chuckled over the insanely frigid pelting. And then as they backed into their slip, the rain ceased as suddenly as it had begun.

    What a thrilling first ride on Peli!

  • Today I challenged myself to 365 days of writing for no less than ten minutes a day and to take a picture of the location.

    July 1, 2025

    Time escapes me like a smooth marble on a slick wood floor.

    Each night I have managed these last couple weeks to squeeze in a writing before falling asleep. Hooray for maintaining a habit of writing every day, even if I have not managed to type it up on this website each day. This is a huge success, one I was unsure of accomplishing. However, the next step will be to write before close of day.

    I suppose we each have our own particular peak writing time of day. Does our writing style/content differ based on when we sit to write? Is there a difference in writing output when one writes outside versus inside? I learned recently that when artists began painting outside due to the invention of portable paints their paintings became much brighter, often landscapes imbued with the warmth of the sun. Will writing from an outside location change how I write?

  • Today I challenged myself to 365 days of writing for no less than ten minutes a day and to take a picture of the location.

    June 30, 2025

    The towers of Greenbury Point. Three stand tall. A reminder of innovations gone by, beacons of welcome today, navigation aids along the Chesapeake Bay and into the Severn River. They are one of the many landmarks of Annapolis, city settled in 1649. Whether viewed from seashore trails below them or from a dinghy on the bay in front of them, these massive giants echo an age of radio and proclaim the endurance of strong work. Their intricate, mathematical lattices climb ever skyward, solid metal beams that withstand the progress of time. Stay tall, Greenbury towers. Guard over this city of “anna”, God’s grace and favor. May those who visit experience joy at the sight of life on the bay at your feet: the crabbers, oyster gatherers, sailors, Naval Academy midshipmen, speed boaters… the watermen of this historic city. And may they marvel at the three tower guardians of Annapolis.

  • Today I challenged myself to 365 days of writing for no less than ten minutes a day and to take a picture of the location.

    June 29, 2025

    Injured toes need to learn to feel the ground again, to curl toward the earth and feel the sand or slipper or grass. Injured toes want to stay off the ground, to pull away from what hurts. This is necessary for a time. But after a break from pressure, the injured toe, now rested from use, must re-engage with every day tasks. It must feel the earth again and learn to bend.

    There is a term called “grounding”, a word used to describe a technique to help cope with psychological-emotional trauma. It is a “wellness practice that involves making direct contact with the Earth’s surface, such as walking barefoot on grass, sand or dirt. The theory is that grounding provides a connection to the Earth’s electrical charge, which may have a positive impact on our bodies, health and mood.” (Missionhealth.org)

    Grounding has also been used to help children with autism or ADHD calm their senses. It relieves nervous tension and anxiety. For whatever reason, the connection of our feet or body to the earth soothes our systems and balances our emotions.

    So let us remember where our feet stand. Let us wiggle our toes and feel where each of the ten connect to the earth. We can be grounded and present in life, no matter how busy, no matter how chaotic. We are here where we need to be.

  • Today I challenged myself to 365 days of writing for no less than ten minutes a day and to take a picture of the location.

    She sat with her brown eyes cast toward the sea, the waves enticing a quick skim across the surface. The faintest breeze teased a wisp of hair from behind her ear. It smelled of summer, hot and humid, a muted sense of rest. Ripple upon ripple. Emotions stirred. She felt it building, this wave of wind, this band of energy. Her brown hair stretched across her face as the gust encompassed her entire being. The wind was here!

    A brief glance at the sky and a double check of the radar later and the brown-haired brown-eyed lass lept into her dinghy to ride waves on this fine day!

  • Today I challenged myself to 365 days of writing for no less than ten minutes a day and to take a picture of the location.

    Free to fly, free to sing.  A blue and white bird hops and soars, tweets and squawks.  She extends her talons, claws she skillfully employs to gather supplies for her nest, catch food, grasp prey, grip landings.  Up into the air, around in circles, through the doorways of the trees swoops the stealthy flier.  “Cluck, cluck,” she proclaims as she lands contentedly on her favorite perch, a tender bow with broad arms and wisps of moss.  Time to primp her feathers. 

    Wait, her tail is yellow!  A night in the rain soiled her dainty plumage.  She must purge her feathers of such filth.  What stately cleaning ensues as one by one the fine fowl attends to each dirtied feather.  Her beak pulls the oils from the cleaning glands and quickly applies it to each feather.  She begins by her back and then stretches out, pulling the feathers like a fan.  It is beautiful and peaceful to watch, but she is busy at work. 

    Pausing she rests.  She puffs her feathers, appearing as a round fluff ball, and shakes out her down.  Vigorously wagging her tail, the bird is pleased with her success.  She gracefully balances on the swaying branch, coos, and fluffs up her neck feathers proudly.  Her beady eyes squint and almost close. She is content and happy to be a bird.

  • Today I challenged myself to 365 days of writing for no less than ten minutes a day and to take a picture of the location.

    Loud, chaotic, rambunctious, energetic. This is the joy of a child. It’s not quite my choice of environment, this echoey indoor waterpark with smells of not-chlorinated-enough water mixed with … is that an ammonia smell?! Splashing through puddles of standing water with small pieces of trash in the corners from people’s left over fast food is not quite my cup of tea.

    So why am I here? I’m here for the excitement on my children’s face when they realize they get to go down the fastest tube slide all by themselves. I’m here to cheer on my timid child for bravely riding with only a brother and no parent. I’m here to float down the lazy river with my husband, allowing ourselves to be target practice for our enthusiastic water marksmen on the bridge overhead.

    We are here to grow as a family. In the midst of this loud and obnoxious setting, we see older brother watch out for youngest brother and brother and sister who usually fight ask over and over again to ride together. It is noisy and crazy. A measure of faith is required to let the children roam free in the midst of this chaos. Yet the reward was grand.

  • Today I challenged myself to 365 days of writing for no less than ten minutes a day and to take a picture of the location.

    Small things matter. This lesson reverberated throughout my minor injuries this past year. A simple thumb sprain turned into an eight month recovery, with OT and painful injections. My middle toe is now sprained and I cannot bend the distal joint anymore. Small things matter.

    Attending to small matters makes a big difference in the long run. As tedious as it was to perform the OT exercises and go to all of the therapy appointments, it was there that I learned methods to calm down the swelling and desensitize my thumb from the over-triggering of pain my brain was receiving. The small things like ice packs and heat packs, passive stretching and small movements allowed my body and brain to recover much of the function that was there before the injury. It felt like tiny baby steps, but they all added up to the necessary training for my thumb to be usable again.

    Now for my toe, I’m starting to bend it passively to remind my brain that there are still muscles attached that control the movements of my top joint. Small steps. But they matter.

  • Today I challenged myself to 365 days of writing for no less than ten minutes a day and to take a picture of the location.

    Resolve and commitment weight heavily in determining the success of a mission.

    Today the US bombed Iran’s nuclear weapons factories with decisive action through a secret deployment of B2s.

    Today a personal relationship strengthens rather than crumbles.

    Resolve and commitment are necessary for the success of life missions.

    (written June 21, 2025)

  • Today I challenged myself to 365 days of writing for no less than ten minutes a day and to take a picture of the location.

    “Unfortunately, many people do not consider fun an important item on their daily agenda. For me, that was always a high priority in whatever I was doing.” – Chuck Yeager

    That comes from the first test pilot to break the sound barrier. I am happy to follow in his footsteps and choose fun as an important priority in life every day. May tomorrow be a day filled with some measure of fun!

Leader
Will you lead through the fire?
What when the fire dies?
Who are you leading and do you know your why?
Do you promote yourself above others?
Or do you look and see others, weaving talents together to yield a cloth of multiplied strength?
Deceptive is the idea that the best leader is one most skilled in his craft (be it flying a plane, designing technology, etc).
Perhaps leading others is a skill in itself.
Look just below the highest performing worker… for the one who watches, observes, encourages, challenges the team to grow.
Can an intrinsically skilled leader of people lead in multiple contexts, regardless of his/her specific job training?
Leader, lead people and know why you lead.